MAMA MIA🥂

Tbh I don’t know why it gets easier, to find the kick to write when something crazy, annoying happens

You know much like Adelle 😂where she gives us fire albums after her breakups🤩,

When we are happy and so in love it’s such a bliss, you’re so wrapped up in that phase, the honeymoon, that all you want is to make them happy, and I know it sounds as lame as a broken record, but that’s how we are wired, women feel sense of self depending on the status of their relationships while men get the sense of self from their achievements, and that’s how it is.,we are wired that way., Where we are impulsive, they are logical.,

And it’s unfair, why weren’t they the emotional bitches and us the maucho mamas 😒, because we fall too fast for the most little things.,and tbh I personally hate it, feeling all mushy while they could just be playing a chess game and ofcourse he wins.,more often than not.

And after he get the prize he’s onto the next game.,

Again it’s men, it’s the chase, it’s the game and nothing gives them more thrill than that., And that’s what works against us..,because it can just be a game for them., And you have a wedding planned😂btw guys..if she’s really smitten; oh 😏😋 boy.., you’ve definitely had a wedding*don’t even argue*.., 😂, they’ve definitely stripped you in their heads alot😂 they’ve cussed you out in their heads for silly things you did or didn’t do😂and it’s usually such fun phase😂😂

I bet you now have someone in mind already, 😏

So now that you do..,

let’s talk second chances; more like the million chances you gave him because you fell for all the lies, oh the marinated sweet lies, that get you apologising for things you didn’t even do😉 yess those lies..that get you horny all.over again for the same fucker you wanted to kill.,😂😂whatever guys are using out here its working..,😂

(until it doesn’t😌)

And that part👆 is usually the best,

When you’re out of that phase with all the excitement, the thrill, and fights..the make ups. The badshit crazy things we do😂😂😅

Tbh there are fights I miss sometimes,.that fiesty part of the cycle because they show you care; you know..mnakasirikiana kidogo😂you miss each other.,spice it up💦, get back..😂you know how it goes..and I’m not saying you won’t catch feelings..,you will 💯at some point then lose them, then catch them again😂😂😂we are together I know💗😂😂yess

But that part when you’re okay with just the memory..when you’ve learnt the lesson they were destined to teach is the ultimate release..,

There times though, we have to let go of someone we don’t really want to.., and it sucks yess., But TRUST there’s definitely a reason., And it’s mostly for your own good, a way to protect your energy.,but you’ll see that later.,

And laugh at how stupid you were crying over people you should have never let close to your soul in the first place.,

Ofcourse there the good ones., And when you get to experience a good one, you’ll know, mainly because he’ll show you, he’ll maintain his consistency to keep winning you, and also because it will feel different, he will be different.

So when you feel confused just know they’re not the kind of good you need., do yourself the favour and just 🚀🚀,

😘💗Have a lovely weekend 😘