DEFIANCE

I am a woman, in all my Glory

I nurture, I love, I forgive,I take so h crap, buy because I am a woman,

I thug it out, because I am fierce, and strong, and made of a strong woman too

But society🙄, and it’s rules and it’s stereotypes

Just because I don’t want marriage I a whore,

Just because I don’t want kids, I am empty, barren, cursed,

That despite my achievements, and dreams if I don’t have a home 👨‍👩‍👧‍👦 then i am these modern women who can’t keep a man😂

That just because I have a smart mouth and I’m not bossed around then I’m a hot headed girl who wasn’t raised right..

That just because I don’t believe it when a man says they’ll love me forever then I’m.too picky and will never settle,

That’s exactly my problem, SETTLE that word.,

What if I don’t want to settle

What if I don’t believe all the lies men tell because they all leave anyway

What if I don’t believe in marriage because of the ones I’ve seen and

Of the women who keep saying marriage is stressful, take your time as a single girl

What if I don’t really care about my biological clock

What if I don’t want kids because of a bad experience I’ve had,a miscarriage perhaps that torments my soul and the thought of pregnancy literally send me sprawling out

What if I don’t want kids because I don’t feel capable enough of raising a kid or because I don’t want noise in my house or just that I’m.not ready

Are my reasons invalid just because society says.

You know what, FUCK society

I am a woman, in all my Glory

And I will go for whatever makes me happy,

I will achieve my goals,

I will hoe around if that’s what I want

After all, I too am a sexual being, with sexual appetite and sexual skills to diaoy

We say empowerment but we don’t talk bout the unspoken rules.. or rather the constraints,

That I can be successful just not too much, because it’ll intimidate men who want me

FUCK you..,if you’ll be intimidated by a strong woman, then You don’t have the balls..

Strong women are for strong men,with balls big enough to handle all sides of her,

That I can’t be ratchet because men are the only ones with that right,

That I can’t ask too many questions😂😂

If I do get kids.. I’ll raise my girls to be invincible, to grow up defying all odds

That all that truly matters is what makes them happy